I’ve officially accepted that the man in my life is a mental trainwreck. There is nothing I can do. No amount of medication will fix his problems. So I need to accept that fact and move on. I will still be friends with him as he needs people who don’t have any major mental problems in his life, but I can’t be in a relationship with anymore.
Updated: He finally told me the big ugly secret and it is something that I can’t live with because of my past. I do hope to remain friends (at a distance at first) because when you look past this “bad” stuff, he is great person.
I’m going to be doing a lot of sole searching this holiday season. I need to gear up my mind to accept a good man in my life. One that doesn’t have any skeltons or scarry past lives. If Ms. Single Mama can do it, I surely can.